Be your true self to thrive.

Every person who comes to this world does not have any clear image or meaning about himself, and during the stages of upbringing he acquires all the meanings, ideas and convictions that determine the nature of his identity and the nature of the parents’ interaction with the child, specifically in his early years.

Perhaps you are now wondering whether the fate of the individual is related to the level of mental health of the parents, the answer is yes and no, yes if you surrender to that acquired identity and believe in it and act on it, but as for the answer no, it is the most correct for a person who has freedom of will and choice, because you are the one who determines your identity.

What happens when exposed to negative upbringing or painful experiences is worth noting, as the self-image of the individual is shaken and confidence begins to leak like grains of sand in small, unnoticeable proportions until it fades, so he begins to make decisions and choices with weakness and unworthiness, which leads to bringing the reality of suffering, loss of opportunities and the expansion of feelings Internal negativity and conflict with the external environment.

Your self-image is a serious matter and deserves attention, since you are the one who defines it, and it determines who you will be! It depends on the nature of the self-image and how much you believe in it, it will become what you believe in. Negative self-belief is a false and deceptive belief that has been acquired by mechanism without any notice or awareness.

You have to get rid of the thief inside you who robs you of your true identity, and makes your past the control of your reality and future. What if I asked you now to rewrite the chapters of your life again as you want and with complete free choice and not as you need. What would you like to do, and how will you live? Do you think you’d change things if you had another chance? If your answer is yes, then you are on the cusp of a whole new chapter in your life.

Your true identity

The fundamental question in this matter is “Who are you?” You may answer in your name, you may answer with your work, or you may respond with a capacity or ambition you have. But is that “you”. What you do, think, or feel is one of many parts. That total or the real you. You are much more than just the verb, the noun, the feeling and the present challenge. And sorry, I tell you that you are working against your reality when you speak negatively in the form of “I” .. because the mind works to identify with this word, and identification here means similarity, meaning that your mind will achieve for you everything that it associates with the word “I” because you inform it with a direct and clear message that this Realistic and that’s what I want and that’s what I’m going to get.

The perception and behavior that created the reality of suffering for you, will not be the same as the awareness and behavior that creates prosperity. The mentality of finding solutions is completely different from the mentality of creating problems. The mentality of creating problems is a dependency mentality that always complains and lives in the role of the victim and waits for the great miracle to happen to it to achieve its goals, and while waiting it remains in a state of suffering, conflict and complaint. As for the mentality of finding solutions, it is a mindset that exercises control, control and control over all aspects of its life.

So why can’t most people create the reality they want as long as it is applicable and available to everyone?

Acting with the mentality of the solution and the prosperity industry first needs to abandon the habit of passive abstinence, which is getting rid of saying I can’t, surrendering and acquiescing to the current situation and trying to coexist and adapt to suffering, which brings more suffering.

In order to get rid of negative abstinence, you must get rid of complacency and satisfaction with the reality of suffering and raise your entitlement to a better, prosperous, and abundant reality with what you want. You also have to get rid of the brakes that are stopping your path to prosperity, and you can get rid of them by starting to take responsibility. Taking responsibility for your life is the difference between maturity and psychological maturity.

Taking responsibility means that you are fully responsible for yourself and what you do and what you suffer from. In reality, you are responsible for negative feelings such as anxiety, anger, fear, envy, resentment and guilt…etc. It is also responsible for bringing about a shift in your inner world to prosperity, abundance, prosperity, happiness and peace.

Inner Voice

This responsibility and this shift is achieved by changing the inner voice that revolves inside your head, who you are, what you live and what you will become. That voice is the first cause of suffering or prosperity. With the nature of the interaction that takes place between your thoughts, feelings and behavior, the influence between them is reciprocal and each of them is a reflection of the other, and this mechanism is one of the generators of behavior where when you talk, even if artificially, about a good thing, you will generate more positive thoughts, positive feelings, positive behavior and positive decision, and the continuation of this interaction leads to the formation of habits, values ​​and convictions.

This means that you talk about yourself with yourself positively and about your abilities, capabilities, skills and ability, stop your focus on noticing your flaws that have no reason for their existence but your adherence to them, and start listing your positives and talk about them to yourself with confidence and pride. If we cannot love ourselves and give them enough respect, appreciation, and attention, then where do we derive love from? The absence of something does not give it, and the loss of something does not mean the absence of it from the outside, but the absence of the interior.

The mind does not know failure, it makes you the best in the inputs that allow it to pass to it and start working on them to implement and achieve them optimally. You were created to win and win, and your preparation for suffering and loss is the result of the negativity that pervades our societies. You always talk, think, decide and act as you see yourself.

Therefore, your concept of yourself is the core of your personality, as it is the first influencer in all aspects of your life. The positive mental concept does not mean selfishness and self-aggrandizement, but rather a healthy acceptance of oneself, as one of the most prevalent and insidious diseases among humans is arrogance and arrogance. Rather, it gets rid of feelings of guilt, self-criticism, feelings of inferiority, inferiority, scarcity, and in short, the transition from suffering to prosperity and enjoyment of ability, entitlement, abundance, wealth and sufficiency.

Transformation process

The real process of moving from a negative self-image to a positive one begins with taking responsibility for controlling thinking and inner voice, and taking responsibility for executive discipline in behaviors and reactions. It does not happen at first sight. What has been consolidated through years of building and belief in it will not be abandoned in one hour by mere positive talk. Rather, determination and perseverance must be made to focus positively, mentally and behaviorally, on what must be said and done in a way that brings you prosperity.

In order for the transformation process to succeed, you must define well what prosperity means to you. Prosperity is a general description that varies in the nature of priorities and meaning from one person to another. Determine what spiritual, health, professional, family and personal prosperity means to you, then move and act in accordance with this reality that you want. The vast majority act against what they want, only ten percent do what they want, and only three percent achieve unparalleled success. They realized their self-image in that success and approached it with full discipline and commitment until they achieved this success.

Transformation Challenges

The reasons for reversing the transformation process always revolve between negative external events and the reasons mentioned, which are negative abstinence and restraints, so what can be done about external challenges. It is also due to your self-belief about yourself and the environment.

The results that are achieved in reality are not based on external events only, but in addition to your responses and reactions to those events. In life, you play the role of the actor and the responsible, not the subject and the victim. So what you can do about these challenges is to make a reaction that helps achieve your prosperity and maintain your responsibility towards yourself and your reality, because you cannot change anything in the universe but yourself. You have to see yourself being able to thrive on the easy road and on the winding and rocky road.

Give up the expectations of others

Each of us has our own perception of life and how things should be. Everyone strives to try to advise others on the way they think is best for life and success, but in reality if the method works at all, it may not be compatible with you and your personal nature.

So ditch trying to match your selfie with the one other people tell you about is the best. If your true self is not what you think of yourself, it is certainly not what other people tell you. Each of us is characterized by our own internal and external individuality in content and appearance, and similarity in something does not necessarily mean its correctness. Therefore, maintain your individuality because it is the most important thing that distinguishes you, and there is no objection to benefiting from the opinions of others and deduction from reality, but in the end you have to do what you want and not what others dictate to you.

level of ambition

One of the perceptual paradoxes that we will learn about is that if you are not satisfied with anything but the privilege, you will get it, and if you wish your situation to improve even a little bit, you will also get it.

It is like asking and responding, supplication and destiny. This is the law by which life operates, be first inwardly and you will be first in reality. Wishing for the best is always real and not what makes you feel good for the moment. Small achievements are good and they are what make great prosperity, but those small, isolated achievements alone are not enough, you have to continue to achieve what makes you first, the desert is made of very small grains of sand, but they are close enough to make This is a large area of ​​the desert.